Phoebe's Halloween costume / What to say instead of "I'm sorry for your loss" / Jodi got into trouble while reading to 3rd graders

Phoebe (Murphy & Jodi's youngest daughter) is FINALLY letting them share one of her Halloween costumes for this year!

What else to say to someone instead of "I'm sorry for your loss" when they are grieving.  

Jodi may get "in trouble" for something she did while reading to 3rd graders.

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.