316. Cultivating Psychological Flexibility: A Mother's Guide to Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

Send us a textPsychological flexibility transforms how we mother and mature. I welcome psychologist Jill Stoddard to explore how Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) can help women navigate anxiety, stress, and the challenges of parenting with more significant presence and authenticity.• Understanding psychological flexibility as being present, being open to internal experiences, and making value-aligned choices.• Learning that values are how we appear in life—not feelings, outcomes, or others' behaviors.• Recognizing avoidance patterns: The Doer, The Hider, The Compulsive, The Thinker, and The Otherer.• Practicing mindful willingness through simple exercises like changing hand positions or breathing techniques.• Breaking the cycle of resistance with the mantra: "This is uncomfortable, but it's just a feeling. It is not dangerous; it is temporary, and I can handle it."• Distinguishing between acceptance of internal experiences (ACT) and radical acceptance of external reality (DBT).• Finding ways to apply ACT principles during challenging parenting moments with young children.Take the quiz to discover your avoidance pattern at jillstoddard.com/quizzes and explore Jill's books "Be Mighty" and "Impostor No More" for guided exercises on developing psychological flexibility.Be sure to check out Jill's "Two-Minute Tips" on Substack.Support the showBegin Your Heartlifter's Journey: Support the show: Your Donation Matters Leave a review and rate the podcast: WRITE A REVIEW Make a tax-deductible donation through Heartlift International Visit and subscribe to Heartlift Central on Substack. This is our new online meeting place for Heartlifters worldwide. Download the 2025 Advent Guide: The Great Glimmer Hunt Meet me on Instagram: @janellrardon